Monday, August 27, 2012

Hinata Hyuga as an anti-bullying poster girl



On August 26, 2012, Tokyopop's Facebook page posted a picture of Hinata as a preview for their upcoming post about "anime characters who were able to overcome their tormentors".  The next day, they shared a link to this article:
"Bully Beatdown: 5 Characters Who Overcame Adversity"
http://www.nerdistnews.com/region/tokyopop/bully-beatdown-5-characters-who-overcame-adversity

Surprisingly, there were a lot of comments on Tokyopop's Facebook page complaining that Hinata was a terrible example of an anime character who overcame her bully.  I dare to disagree.  Even if Hinata seemed like a push-over against the bullying from Neji and her father (though, according to some commentors, this bullying was only in the anime, but not the manga), she's still a good example of standing up to bullies.  I don't see why everyone is disagreeing with Tokyopop's use of her picture in their anti-bullying Facebook post.


 Sure, she got beat up physically by Neji, and Naruto had to physically defeat Neji, but in very significat ways, Neji was also defeated by Hinata.  Despite Neji's bullying, Hinata did not give in to his constant claims that she was a failure.  She rose above the dictation of his emotional tormenting, and she chose her own way of living her life, to try her best and maintain hope in herself, regardless of what he said.  Not only did she not believe in the hopeless destiny he was claiming for her, but she also was able to see through to his own weaknesses and motivations against destiny, which were hidden even from himself.  If not physically, Hinata certainly proved herself to be superior in spirit.  It could be said that she defeated Neji in a much more significant manner than physical battle.  And though this did not completely defeat Neji, it did strike him enough to lose his cool---I think he realized that she truly had defeated him, by superceeding the obstacles that he had succumbed to.


 Naruto was the one who completed Neji's defeat.  But as the Hero of the series, Naruto exemplified the best way to deal with a bully.  Not necessarily by defeating them, but by transforming their bullying spirit into a non-malicious one.  Even after the moment Naruto punched-out Neji, incapacitating him, Neji was still speaking in a manner that suggested that he had not changed his way of thought (the inflexibility of destiny and the destiny of the weak to be defeated by the physically strong).  Neji really changed only after Naruto went on to explain that in the academy, Naruto himself was the biggest failure ever, and yet, he just proved that even a "failure" could change destiny and overcome challenges.  This gave hope to Neji's inner torments, thus negating his hidden needs to torment Hinata.  Time and again, this solution of tending to the hidden pain of bullies, to turn them into people more empathic towards others' pain, and enable them to feel remorse for bullying, has proven to be the real answer.  This solution also saves the tormented from becoming bullies themselves, just to defend themselves from bullies.


 Naruto and Hinata together demonstrated 2 different fronts against bullying, and I don't think that the emotional side of bullying issues should be neglected, in favor of physical battles alone.  Bullying isn't just physical, afterall, and neither are the tools to battle it.  And personally, I think that showing that if even a soft-spoken, (relatively) physically weak person like Hinata can persist against bullies, and hold on to her hope in herself and in life, and even go one further, by continuing to try her best in all she does, then she's an excellent example of hope and true Strength for people tormented by bullies. 

Sunday, August 26, 2012

responses to a "Geekdom dark side" article

Geekdom sees it's own dark side - San Francisco cosplay - Examiner.com
http://www.examiner.com/article/geekdom-sees-it-s-own-dark-side?fb_action_ids=10151128142044658&fb_action_types=og.recommends&fb_source=other_multiline&action_object_map=%7B%2210151128142044658%22%3A10152059893775285%7D&action_type_map=%7B%2210151128142044658%22%3A%22og.recommends%22%7D&action_ref_map=[]

If I have any problem with some of the newcomers into geekdom, or a particular fandom, it's my personally having witnessed newcomers being antagonistic towards geekdom.  Whether they be a non-fan, coming to our convention, to riducule us as a sideshow, or by making me feel like a walking sideshow, by riduculing a fan of my type for trying out their fandom's convention.  I have walked by people in an anime convention's exhibit hall, who cry out, "I don't even like anime!", sufficiently shattering the air of acceptance we were prepared to feel at-con, into a mere, false sense of security.  And I've stood shyly in line at other cons, about to pull out my manga for the 2+hour wait, only to be unable to escape the manga-hating conversation of the group next to me, and pressed between intimidation and boredom at a con that was supposed to be fun.

And I have been victim of those acidic comments to cosplay.  I love DeviantArt, but I post my cosplay pictures at Cosplay.com, unless I can be absolutely confident about my photos/cosplay, in such an objective coldness, that there sometimes isn't an ounce of fun allowed.  ;_;  Otherwise, I've gotten comments like "You're ugly", rather than, "Try different lighting or this type of make-up".  Nevermind constructive criticism---Where did all the human empathy and fun go?

 This article actually reminds me about a point I was making in my recent blog entry:  It's so jarring to experience geeks being exclusionary and judgemental, when in Real Life (outside the fandom) we are usually the subjects of ridicule and ostrization.  Weren't we supposed to learn empathy from surviving the guanlet of the Mundane world?  When did the fandom world become an opportunity to become the bullies that tortured us in Mundane life?  It's not like that Elitist reversal of power is really retaliating against the people who rightfully deserve the searing end of indignation.

I really liked the last paragraph of this article, which brought attention to the vast, growing library and variety of fandoms available.  To me, this reinforces the idea that there is something for everyone.  Therefore, everyone has a right to be a geek. 

Saturday, August 25, 2012

manga just in

These manga came in the mail just now:
Bleach volumes 44-47
Otomen 13
Thank you, Right Stuf!  ^u^

Saturday, August 18, 2012

Are gamers unusually intimidating for geeks?

As geeks, we've all been here at some point:
The ostracism by Mundanes, hammering you for so long, that in a time of weakness, you doubt what you have chosen to love.  You begin to believe that there is something wrong with you, for liking comics, videogames, figurines, anime, etc.
Then you hear of someone or some group that is into things categorized as "geeky". 
But when you get there, they are just as unaccepting. 
Maybe because they only respect American comics, but think your manga collecting is childish.
Or, First Person Shooters are what's cool, and you like Japanese RPGs. 
Or, the fandom community only likes Sakaguchi, and if anyone finds out you like Nomura, you'll get crucified. 

More often than not, I find this atmosphere among gamers.  As far as geeks go, my friends and I have begun to notice that gamers are often indistinguishable from Mundanes.  There's the same probabiliy that they'll judge your geekiness and bash you for loving what you love (and daring to show it)---basically, for being a geek...of something not as mainstream as music, movies, or fashion.  Aren't gamers geeks too?  ;o;

Or did my friends and I just have the bad luck of continually being exposed to gamers who happened to also be harsh people?  But reading this comment at YouTube kind of verified the harsh culture in gaming:



Is it that the often violent and competitive nature of gaming, simply attracts harsh people? 

After some thought, I have to believe that those are just the jerks, and jerks are in every geeky fandom.  They're usually called Elitists.  The others, aren't really jerks, but enjoy arguing for the sake of arguing.  (I just wish they'd only play debating games with people who actually want to play.)

contrasting ads

Something ironic happening here...

I was watching a news clip, interviewing Danny Choo for Anime Expo, while Dolldelight had a lolita fashion show.  During the plug for AX, they showed this little ad (on the left), featuring a Dolldelight lolita.  Opposite of my screen, was this E! channel ad. 

The E! ad just seems shockingly sexy, after watching the comparatively innocent and cute, lolita fashion show. 

It's so nice to have an alternative culture, like anime and manga.  A different set of values about "what's cool", enables different options to exist, besides just sex appeal.  The Japanese acceptance of cute, deems it as a "child-like" value, rather than just as a "childish" taboo, as it is in the West.  Because cute is allowed to be  enjoyed, even by the supposedly "mature" demographic, Japanese media can offer a welcome relief from "sex as cool" being the only game in town.

Tuesday, August 14, 2012

anime decor at the Tanabata festival

Last Sunday was the last day of the Los Angeles Tanabata festival.  The decorations were beautiful, as always---and this year, even more so---but the biggest surprise was seeing tanabata decorations turned into the heads of anime characters.  0.0!  So many spheres were turned into the heads of Pikachu, Goku, Hello Kitty, Doraemon, and other creatures.  ^u^



The wishes tied to trees, also had some otaku-relavant notes.
The wish "to be anime" was a cute surprise.  But the next wish I found made me laugh out loud:


A Quebey from Puella Magi Madoka Magica!  ^O^

Saturday, August 4, 2012

collection rearrangement

Spent most of Friday, rearranging one of my bookcases.  I decided to re-shelve the box of manga and DVDs that I had been considering to sell at swap meet.  Fortunately, I was able to still find room behind the front rows of manga. 
My shelves are organized by genre(s). 
Pictured above, from top to bottom:
action
Bleach & Claymore
psychics & occult
gender bending
Sanami Matoh, pure drama (no curses, sci-fi, witches, etc.), cute series
sword & sorcery, maho-shonen/-shojo, androids

Today, I decided to dedicate one of my "action genre" shelves, entirely to Bleach and Claymore (on the front row).  No doubt, it will get full again eventually.  But at least for now, there's a nice gap for maybe 7 or 8 more volumes. 

The Code Geass R2 box covers had to get moved to the back row.  Even though they're nice to see, they keep falling off the front row, and this time, one of the collector's booklets fell out, and tore.  ;_; 

Also re-organized a narrow gap between these 2 pale-wood bookcases:
If you look closely, you can see Maxx peeking out behind Kagome.  ^_^